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Inspired By The Other Night

December 3rd, 2009 Leave a comment Go to comments

We may have broken up a long time ago, or maybe it was recently, but I never stopped caring. Not one second did I stop caring. I may not have wanted to continue to be in a relationship, or wait, it was you, okay, yeah, it was you who didn’t want to continue our relationship, but it doesn’t matter. I never stopped caring.

You were my middle school crush and I haven’t seen you since our 8th grade promotion. You were the girl whose house I was just at last week, but this week, I came and went for the last time. You were the girl with the forgotten name, but the memorable body and moan tandem. It doesn’t matter how brief or long the encounter, for some moments you were my favorite person in the world and I never stopped caring about all of yous.

One day I wake up to realize we haven’t talked in a long, long while. I wonder if you know I am still here, still care. I can’t even recall the last time I thought about you, the last time I checked on you, but this morning it doesn’t matter, I wonder what’s up with you. Let me do that right now. Grab my phone, scroll through my phone book. Wait, you’re not in there anymore.

Now I can’t call just to tell you I still care, and maybe that’s for the best because others have filled the position. They don’t need any help in the caring-about-you department. But it’s like working from home, I don’t need to go to where you are to do my job. I still care anyway, no matter where you are, no matter where I am.

Something happened to you the other night, and I was nowhere around because just a few nights ago I said we needed space. Anyway, that something was bad and unexpected, it came out of nowhere, and thank goodness you called me regardless of our status. You knew I would care and I hope you know I will never stop.

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  • nic

    This speaks volumes to what I am feeling right now. Thanks for the post.

  • *inquiring mind*

    I’m just glad we’re not talking about cheating anymore… sheeesh!

  • http://www.thedlife.wordpress.com Ms. Dee

    This has got to be the sweetest thing! Who knew you had it in you, lol. Okay, now get back to the man talk:-)

  • K.Ova

    If Jozen comes from a pool of similar men, now I feel like a jerk for not caring sometimes. Thanks, homie.
    Great post.

  • Danielle D

    Great Post…there is a friend of mine I have been wondering about for several months, but I don’t have any contact info and he is not on Facebook or myspace…the last I hard he was working in the ATL or in Kansas City. I am so sad that I dunno where he is…but it was sooo not as serious as this relationship discussed in this post.

  • LumbarPuncture

    This *almost* makes me feel bad for no longer caring about some people in my past

    ..and makes me wish I could stop caring about others

  • oc

    Clearly I am the only one who thought this was emo.

    *will re-evaluate*

  • Courtney

    Loved it!!

  • Teach It

    No, you’re not. Glad you said it first though. :)

  • Daf

    me too!! this post really speaks to me. one of my favorite so far ! thank you Jozen !

  • Jinx Moneypenny

    I feel you on this.

  • kaptivating49

    Wow… I feel like I wrote this.

  • Mimi

    I love this!!!
    I also love when my exes call me just to check on me after a long time. They still care. Its the best feeling in the world too.