Comments on: The Ultimate Compliment http://untiligetmarried.com/2010/01/05/the-ultimate-compliment/ Inside The Mind Of The Modern Day Bachelor Wed, 16 May 2012 22:12:00 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Until I Get Married » Just Because I Want To Sleep With You, Doesn’t Mean I’m Disrespectful http://untiligetmarried.com/2010/01/05/the-ultimate-compliment/comment-page-1/#comment-9132 Until I Get Married » Just Because I Want To Sleep With You, Doesn’t Mean I’m Disrespectful Tue, 22 Jun 2010 07:10:33 +0000 http://untiligetmarried.com/?p=1028#comment-9132 [...] couple of months ago, I wrote a post entitled, “The Ultimate Compliment”. In it, I attempted to make a case for sex being the highest form of praise one person can give to [...] [...] couple of months ago, I wrote a post entitled, “The Ultimate Compliment”. In it, I attempted to make a case for sex being the highest form of praise one person can give to [...]

]]> By: Until I Get Married » Frankly Ladies, Some Men Just Don’t Want To Sleep With You http://untiligetmarried.com/2010/01/05/the-ultimate-compliment/comment-page-1/#comment-4860 Until I Get Married » Frankly Ladies, Some Men Just Don’t Want To Sleep With You Thu, 22 Apr 2010 15:24:22 +0000 http://untiligetmarried.com/?p=1028#comment-4860 [...] have written before about how sometimes sex is the ultimate compliment (you can read that here), and how some women have a tendency to overvalue their sexual worth. This is not to say their [...] [...] have written before about how sometimes sex is the ultimate compliment (you can read that here), and how some women have a tendency to overvalue their sexual worth. This is not to say their [...]

]]> By: The Compliment Translator « Until I Get Married http://untiligetmarried.com/2010/01/05/the-ultimate-compliment/comment-page-1/#comment-1919 The Compliment Translator « Until I Get Married Tue, 02 Mar 2010 15:07:57 +0000 http://untiligetmarried.com/?p=1028#comment-1919 [...] Go to comments I’ve spoken before about compliments. Receiving them, giving them out, the ultimate compliment, and so on and so forth. Compliments are important, not because they help raise self-esteem, but [...] [...] Go to comments I’ve spoken before about compliments. Receiving them, giving them out, the ultimate compliment, and so on and so forth. Compliments are important, not because they help raise self-esteem, but [...]

]]> By: Annaleisha http://untiligetmarried.com/2010/01/05/the-ultimate-compliment/comment-page-1/#comment-1918 Annaleisha Mon, 11 Jan 2010 10:29:25 +0000 http://untiligetmarried.com/?p=1028#comment-1918 As another poster mentioned, sex is only the ultimate compliment if you are not willing to share that experience with another. People have become less and less selective of their sexual partners (part of the reason why HIV/ AIDS is still spreading in pandemic proportions) so it may nt always say what you think it says.... Catch my drift? I defo feel that sex should be shared between 2 ppl who are married.... But, that's jus my thing. I don't see how having multiple sexual encounters with different ppl is a gd thing... **shrugs shoulders** Also as sum1 else said sex an intamacy no longer go hand in hand. So ppl have sex w/ others purely b'cos they get to trigger a reflex reaction that sends waves of sensations through their bodies.. They r only doin it for their own selfish reasons. (Though this may not always be the case) My two pence. :-) As another poster mentioned, sex is only the ultimate compliment if you are not willing to share that experience with another.
People have become less and less selective of their sexual partners (part of the reason why HIV/ AIDS is still spreading in pandemic proportions) so it may nt always say what you think it says…. Catch my drift?
I defo feel that sex should be shared between 2 ppl who are married…. But, that’s jus my thing. I don’t see how having multiple sexual encounters with different ppl is a gd thing… **shrugs shoulders**

Also as sum1 else said sex an intamacy no longer go hand in hand. So ppl have sex w/ others purely b’cos they get to trigger a reflex reaction that sends waves of sensations through their bodies.. They r only doin it for their own selfish reasons. (Though this may not always be the case)

My two pence. :-)

]]> By: Cupcake http://untiligetmarried.com/2010/01/05/the-ultimate-compliment/comment-page-1/#comment-1917 Cupcake Fri, 08 Jan 2010 21:47:48 +0000 http://untiligetmarried.com/?p=1028#comment-1917 What does it mean when a guy is not trying to have sex with you, but says he has very strong feelings for you? I would hate to think that the only way he can show his true feelings is to try to have sex with you. I'm jus sayin... What does it mean when a guy is not trying to have sex with you, but says he has very strong feelings for you? I would hate to think that the only way he can show his true feelings is to try to have sex with you. I’m jus sayin…

]]> By: Naturi Beauty/Shelley Chapman http://untiligetmarried.com/2010/01/05/the-ultimate-compliment/comment-page-1/#comment-1916 Naturi Beauty/Shelley Chapman Thu, 07 Jan 2010 16:48:27 +0000 http://untiligetmarried.com/?p=1028#comment-1916 Sex is a gift intimately shared. I believe the West has a "repressive" view of sex, thus the discomfort of being willing to share it with whomever without the "formalities" of marriage, relationship, etc. It IS a compliment to know that you and your partner chose each other, even if for a moment, day, night, month or lifetime, to experience an act that not only bonds your bodies but your spirits, and allows you to enter realms that reveal your higher and truer self. Each experience should be regarded as sacred AND I think you should be selective about your partners. Because IT is a major compliment to be willing to share (not give) yourself and allow another to revel in your light. Sex is a gift intimately shared. I believe the West has a “repressive” view of sex, thus the discomfort of being willing to share it with whomever without the “formalities” of marriage, relationship, etc. It IS a compliment to know that you and your partner chose each other, even if for a moment, day, night, month or lifetime, to experience an act that not only bonds your bodies but your spirits, and allows you to enter realms that reveal your higher and truer self. Each experience should be regarded as sacred AND I think you should be selective about your partners. Because IT is a major compliment to be willing to share (not give) yourself and allow another to revel in your light.

]]> By: Ondrea http://untiligetmarried.com/2010/01/05/the-ultimate-compliment/comment-page-1/#comment-1915 Ondrea Thu, 07 Jan 2010 13:45:54 +0000 http://untiligetmarried.com/?p=1028#comment-1915 I could see where you were going with this even if the delivery was a bit confusing. Good post. I could see where you were going with this even if the delivery was a bit confusing. Good post.

]]> By: Christina http://untiligetmarried.com/2010/01/05/the-ultimate-compliment/comment-page-1/#comment-1914 Christina Thu, 07 Jan 2010 03:12:31 +0000 http://untiligetmarried.com/?p=1028#comment-1914 No. You're not a prude..everyone else that agrees with having sex with random people just because they're 'hot'- is just waayyy too free. No. You’re not a prude..everyone else that agrees with having sex with random people just because they’re ‘hot’- is just waayyy too free.

]]> By: Skye Blue http://untiligetmarried.com/2010/01/05/the-ultimate-compliment/comment-page-1/#comment-1913 Skye Blue Wed, 06 Jan 2010 20:18:59 +0000 http://untiligetmarried.com/?p=1028#comment-1913 Well said. Well said.

]]> By: Realistically Speaking http://untiligetmarried.com/2010/01/05/the-ultimate-compliment/comment-page-1/#comment-1912 Realistically Speaking Wed, 06 Jan 2010 19:22:28 +0000 http://untiligetmarried.com/?p=1028#comment-1912 Well damn... that makes much more sense... I get it. *snaps* Well damn… that makes much more sense… I get it. *snaps*

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