Comments on: Why Girlfriends Matter

By: Millz

Millz — Wed, 18 Aug 2010 06:34:46 +0000

Stumbled across your blog and I LOVE this entry. I agree that titles don’t matter, BUT they can help you gage intentions. For instance, if you’re dating someone for a while AND you’re ONLY dating each other, it doesn’t neccesarily mean you’re exclusive and not open to dating other people. If you’re not sure where you stand with someone, the “where do we stand?”/”what am I to you?”/”what’s MY title?” discussion will clarify their intentions and expectations when their actions seem ambiguous. We should focus on the connection and quality of our relationships and the “title” will take care of itself.

By: shellie

shellie — Tue, 02 Mar 2010 08:13:39 +0000

awwww

By: shellie

shellie — Tue, 02 Mar 2010 08:12:55 +0000

i agree with you!

By: mimi

mimi — Wed, 24 Feb 2010 15:51:47 +0000

The 2nd to last paragraph made me smile. Because, yes we do forget. And sometimes, it doesn’t seem like enough. Then there are those conversations… and in this case blogs… that remind you why you keep holding on. Awwww

By: another scar

another scar — Mon, 15 Feb 2010 21:03:18 +0000

i liked this post…i got married at a young age(19) i have no excuse for that because i did it,i said yes,i took the vow…i just wish i had that practice first and maybe some of the things that go on.i would have been past

man i hope u read your own shit…if so when ur time come u might be problem free lol

By: A

Sat, 13 Feb 2010 06:08:23 +0000

My boyfriend should thank you for posting this… After reading, I almost instantly changed my thoughts from any problems in our relationship to how thankful I am to have him in my life and how much he matters to me. Without him or our relationship I wouldn’t know what love is, I wouldn’t know it was possible to care for someone more than you care for yourself. We’re long distance because I decided to go to college on the East Coast while he stayed in the Midwest, which is no easy task. But I think the distance is a main reason it’s easier to pay attention to the problems and issues we have versus all the great things we have. So thank you, for reminding me that my boyfriend matters even in the worst of situations.

By: Nappy Spirit

Nappy Spirit — Fri, 12 Feb 2010 06:41:12 +0000

Yeah this was a sweet post guys everywhere should give their girlfriends a standing ovation…

By: tihawkins

tihawkins — Fri, 12 Feb 2010 00:44:37 +0000

found you thanks to my childhood friend (better known by the masses as lowkey) i figure if he respects you, how could i not. think your writing is great; and YOU are pretty awesome as well. keep doing what you’re doing, and i’ll keep following.

oh yeah… love this piece.

By: ksoul13

ksoul13 — Fri, 12 Feb 2010 00:44:05 +0000

OMG! So touching and so honest. So when are you publishing your own magazine? Chief Editor maybe…you go boy! Loved it!

By: J. Edouard

J. Edouard — Thu, 11 Feb 2010 23:25:13 +0000

I lOVE this one, well thought out and executed!