Comments on: Frankly Ladies, Some Men Just Don’t Want To Sleep With You http://untiligetmarried.com/2010/04/22/frankly-ladies-some-men-just-dont-want-to-sleep-with-you/ Inside The Mind Of The Modern Day Bachelor Sun, 20 May 2012 23:22:00 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Lee http://untiligetmarried.com/2010/04/22/frankly-ladies-some-men-just-dont-want-to-sleep-with-you/comment-page-1/#comment-5239 Lee Tue, 27 Apr 2010 10:36:53 +0000 http://untiligetmarried.com/?p=1636#comment-5239 <a href="#comment-4878" rel="nofollow">@Ed (@DJEdNice) </a> there have been times where i've invited a woman over my crib just to chill and relax. at the end of the night she looks at me perplexed why i didn't try anything with her. i learn this later on after we become friends. she was like "i just placed you in the friend zone." my response: "umm that's where i wanted to be in the first place." *shrug* @Ed (@DJEdNice) there have been times where i’ve invited a woman over my crib just to chill and relax. at the end of the night she looks at me perplexed why i didn’t try anything with her. i learn this later on after we become friends. she was like “i just placed you in the friend zone.” my response: “umm that’s where i wanted to be in the first place.” *shrug*

]]> By: Sean http://untiligetmarried.com/2010/04/22/frankly-ladies-some-men-just-dont-want-to-sleep-with-you/comment-page-1/#comment-5191 Sean Tue, 27 Apr 2010 01:15:01 +0000 http://untiligetmarried.com/?p=1636#comment-5191 <a href="#comment-4897" rel="nofollow">@Dewan W. Gibson </a> Gosh man... At least you're honest. :/ @Dewan W. Gibson
Gosh man… At least you’re honest. :/

]]> By: Sean http://untiligetmarried.com/2010/04/22/frankly-ladies-some-men-just-dont-want-to-sleep-with-you/comment-page-1/#comment-5178 Sean Mon, 26 Apr 2010 23:58:05 +0000 http://untiligetmarried.com/?p=1636#comment-5178 This is earth shattering... yet one of the truths of life. This is earth shattering… yet one of the truths of life.

]]> By: Patrick http://untiligetmarried.com/2010/04/22/frankly-ladies-some-men-just-dont-want-to-sleep-with-you/comment-page-1/#comment-5084 Patrick Mon, 26 Apr 2010 13:40:05 +0000 http://untiligetmarried.com/?p=1636#comment-5084 He doesn't want to sleep with me? !!! ...who the fcuk is this guy? John Meyer? I'm with Silent Scorpion on this one! ;-) He doesn’t want to sleep with me? !!! …who the fcuk is this guy? John Meyer? I’m with Silent Scorpion on this one! ;-)

]]> By: Matt http://untiligetmarried.com/2010/04/22/frankly-ladies-some-men-just-dont-want-to-sleep-with-you/comment-page-1/#comment-5065 Matt Mon, 26 Apr 2010 08:13:56 +0000 http://untiligetmarried.com/?p=1636#comment-5065 He doesn't want to sleep with me? !!! ...who the fcuk is this guy? John Meyer? I'm with Silent Scorpion on this one! ;-) He doesn’t want to sleep with me? !!! …who the fcuk is this guy? John Meyer? I’m with Silent Scorpion on this one! ;-)

]]> By: Karen http://untiligetmarried.com/2010/04/22/frankly-ladies-some-men-just-dont-want-to-sleep-with-you/comment-page-1/#comment-5018 Karen Sun, 25 Apr 2010 08:06:32 +0000 http://untiligetmarried.com/?p=1636#comment-5018 <a href="#comment-4878" rel="nofollow">@Ed (@DJEdNice) </a> there have been times where i've invited a woman over my crib just to chill and relax. at the end of the night she looks at me perplexed why i didn't try anything with her. i learn this later on after we become friends. she was like "i just placed you in the friend zone." my response: "umm that's where i wanted to be in the first place." *shrug* @Ed (@DJEdNice) there have been times where i’ve invited a woman over my crib just to chill and relax. at the end of the night she looks at me perplexed why i didn’t try anything with her. i learn this later on after we become friends. she was like “i just placed you in the friend zone.” my response: “umm that’s where i wanted to be in the first place.” *shrug*

]]> By: Rick http://untiligetmarried.com/2010/04/22/frankly-ladies-some-men-just-dont-want-to-sleep-with-you/comment-page-1/#comment-5001 Rick Sat, 24 Apr 2010 23:48:33 +0000 http://untiligetmarried.com/?p=1636#comment-5001 <a href="#comment-4884" rel="nofollow">@MadScientist7 </a> Right. I liked that blog, btw. I feel you. It's good when a guy knows his worth "off tops". There are some females who thrive on the success of "just being" based on their looks alone. I have known for some time now that there are guys who decline to have sex with females just as often as she may to others. I have been hella cool with dudes before and had friends ask me if we ever "took it there" and I'm like "there's no need to". "I'm not into him like that". "There have been times where i’ve invited a woman over my crib just to chill and relax." -I feel like this shows a certain level of maturity that many people don't have. Some people think that the way to show interest to someone is by having sex with them. That's why I'm confused about the way Jozen(and others) say :" sex is the ultimate compliment (you can read that here) ". That's where the confusion lies. Because women want to know that they can be appreciated/complimented, by a man before "going there". This is partly the reason some of us believe "that a man's ability to restrain his sexual desires around her is a testament to how much I respect her. As though, my not wanting to sleep with her is because I think more highly of her than the other women who I do want to sleep with." If sex is the ultimate compliment, why can't refraining from wanting to have sex (at the time)be the same? *Am I missing something here?* @MadScientist7
Right. I liked that blog, btw. I feel you. It’s good when a guy knows his worth “off tops”. There are some females who thrive on the success of “just being” based on their looks alone. I have known for some time now that there are guys who decline to have sex with females just as often as she may to others.
I have been hella cool with dudes before and had friends ask me if we ever “took it there” and I’m like “there’s no need to”. “I’m not into him like that”.

“There have been times where i’ve invited a woman over my crib just to chill and relax.”
-I feel like this shows a certain level of maturity that many people don’t have. Some people think that the way to show interest to someone is by having sex with them. That’s why I’m confused about the way Jozen(and others) say :” sex is the ultimate compliment (you can read that here) “.

That’s where the confusion lies. Because women want to know that they can be appreciated/complimented, by a man before “going there”. This is partly the reason some of us believe “that a man’s ability to restrain his sexual desires around her is a testament to how much I respect her. As though, my not wanting to sleep with her is because I think more highly of her than the other women who I do want to sleep with.”

If sex is the ultimate compliment, why can’t refraining from wanting to have sex (at the time)be the same?

*Am I missing something here?*

]]> By: Martin http://untiligetmarried.com/2010/04/22/frankly-ladies-some-men-just-dont-want-to-sleep-with-you/comment-page-1/#comment-4995 Martin Sat, 24 Apr 2010 20:30:29 +0000 http://untiligetmarried.com/?p=1636#comment-4995 <a href="#comment-4888" rel="nofollow">@MadScientist7 </a> Ha.. Thank you for going further. That's probably what Jozen was getting at. I'll marinate on that. @MadScientist7
Ha.. Thank you for going further. That’s probably what Jozen was getting at. I’ll marinate on that.

]]> By: mimi http://untiligetmarried.com/2010/04/22/frankly-ladies-some-men-just-dont-want-to-sleep-with-you/comment-page-1/#comment-4942 mimi Fri, 23 Apr 2010 14:57:58 +0000 http://untiligetmarried.com/?p=1636#comment-4942 This is earth shattering... yet one of the truths of life. This is earth shattering… yet one of the truths of life.

]]> By: sunkissed404 http://untiligetmarried.com/2010/04/22/frankly-ladies-some-men-just-dont-want-to-sleep-with-you/comment-page-1/#comment-4902 sunkissed404 Fri, 23 Apr 2010 00:46:19 +0000 http://untiligetmarried.com/?p=1636#comment-4902 <a href="#comment-4897" rel="nofollow">@Dewan W. Gibson </a> Gosh man... At least you're honest. :/ @Dewan W. Gibson
Gosh man… At least you’re honest. :/

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