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Five Things She Can Do Other Than S#x To Prove That She Likes Me

September 21st, 2010 Leave a comment Go to comments

To the women who are reading this: Do not for one second believe the title of this post is about to offer up some suggestions as to what other things can be substituted for giving up the good stuff. There is absolutely no substitute for the good stuff, at least not one a woman can provide. I can provide it on my own, but that’s neither here nor there.

Here’s what today’s post about: Figuring out ways I can tell a woman really likes me besides having sex with me. I’ve slept with quite a few woman who afterward treated me no different than a girl who has never even thought about sleeping with me. Not all sex is about feelings, sometimes it’s recreational, and I know that will many of my potential commentators saying things like, “That’s what’s wrong with the world,” but there’s a lot of things with the world so let’s just avoid that part of the conversation.

Instead, let’s talk about how sex has become so commonplace today (not a bad thing)  that women now need to find other ways to show they really, really like a guy. So she gave me some good stuff. Great. But how do I know she really likes me? Well, here’s five other things she can do to show me she likes me.

PLAN A DATE FROM BEGINNING TO END

I’m not talking about paying for a date. I’m not talking about suggesting where to go on a date. I’m talking about calling up the guy, asking him what he’s doing within the next couple of days, and if he says nothing, she says, “Great, be ready at seven.” I challenge any woman who says she really likes a man to plan a date for him. Not for the boyfriend, for the guy she likes. The one she’s just starting to date. She needs to show she’s been listening to him the three previous dates go on and on about himself. No better way than to plan a date with a couple of things he said he likes to do. Sex included. Speaking of dates…

IF A RAIN CHECK IS IN ORDER, RESCHEDULE IMMEDIATELY

I don’t know if a girl who cancels our date and then reschedules means she likes me. That could just be an instance where her mother taught her well. But I do know the girl who cancels on me and never bothers to make some alternative plans isn’t really digging me. So if that’s not the message she’s trying to send, she needs to send me the other one, courtesy be damned.

SHE WILL WRITE A RANDOM SUBLIMINAL FACEBOOK STATUS ABOUT ME

I dated a girl once who I first met in real life, but came to admire primarily through Facebook. When the two of us finally did go out on a date, I told her how I spent a good amount of time looking at all her pictures. The young kids call this Facebook stalking. She didn’t freak out or anything of that nature. She actually thought it was funny and somewhat flattering. Anyway, we had a great date. And I knew she felt the same, but it wasn’t until the next day when I went back to her Facebook and saw the status. It read: “hope you don’t stop looking at my facebook :).” See folks! It’s the little things, just a little inside joke shared in front of a lot of people. Win.

SHE WILL REFER TO ME BY NAME TO OTHER PEOPLE IN HER LIFE

She can scream my name all she wants in the bedroom, it only means I’m doing a good job. But if she’s saying my name to other people? Job well done. It’s 2010 people, the use of real names to friends and family are the new boyfriend/girlfriend title.

IT’S CALLED THE TWO WEEK GIFT (AKA FIFTH DATE GIFT)

Great for those who are sleeping with their new person or but especially valuable to those who are almost ready but still need more time. The two-week gift (aka fifth date gift because if two busy people are dating, they might only date once or twice in the first two weeks) is very simple.

Now it’s not one particular thing for every guy. It’s a very specific thing for a the man the girl likes. It doesn’t require much money and it should be something he will laugh about. Don’t go crazy looking for it at clothing stores, it’s usually available at a candy store or a convenience store. It’s nothing big, but what it shows the man is the woman has been listening.

I can’t tell the women what it is, that’s on them to figure out, but to take an example from my own life, here it is: When I was in high school, I loved me some buttered popcorn Jelly Belly jelly beans. I loved those things so much if they would have made a t-shirt with a picture of one on it, I would have bought two. My girlfriend at the time and I were not girlfriend and boyfriend yet, but when she came to school one day, she handed me a whole jar of buttered popcorn Jelly Belly jelly beans. I didn’t even know they made those jars, and I didn’t know anyone can like me so much they would do such a thing.

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