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The Five Friends Every Woman Has

October 18th, 2010 22 comments

I don’t date girls who don’t have friends. The kind of woman I prefer has a healthy social life and healthy relationships with other women not related to her. Something about women with friends puts me at ease, and maybe it’s because I have plenty of male friends in my life, so the balance of her own friends is important.

Whatever it is, a woman with friends is always at the top of my list, and through the years I have learned when dating a woman exactly what kind of friend she is going to have. Some women won’t have all five members of this team, but all women will have at least one or two of these women. Here they are…

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The Ladies Man

October 15th, 2010 19 comments

Excuse me everybody, today’s post is a note to self. Don’t mind me and read on if you’d like.

Okay, I admit, this blog is helping me in the ladies department.

Happy now? There, I admitted it, even after I once tried to deny it.

It’s weird for me to admit that my life has changed since I started this blog, but it’s time for me to face the facts. My life has changed since I started the blog, and I sometimes wonder if that’s a good thing or a bad thing.

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The Two Dates Every Woman Should Go On, As Suggested By A Man

October 14th, 2010 19 comments

As I like to remind people every now and then, just because I write about my relationships doesn’t make me a know-it-all about all relationships. I am no expert, I am just experienced, and based on my experiences I make suggestions to other men and women are trying to find their way through the magical land of single-dom.

Today’s suggestion comes at the behest of my experiences with being two types of men to various women I met. Either I am the man they want or I am the man they don’t want (and when I say “don’t want” I really mean “don’t see”; I haven’t heard a “not interested” in regards to me since high school, but I digress.). Knowing what it’s like to be both men is what has prompted me to share with women a crazy idea I think they should all try if they’re emotionally, mentally, and physically available to do so. Here it is:

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Here Is Another Crazy First Date Idea

October 13th, 2010 63 comments

For those who have been reading the blog for a while now, I am the undisputed King of wacky date ideas. To this day people poke fun at me for a post I wrote last Winter about taking women out for soup; an idea I believe is still genius. Then, I wrote about “PBS and Service Dating”; again, two ideas I would urge anyone to try themselves.

In both instances, many women called me out for being cheap; accusing me of coming up with these dates as some sort of ploy to avoid coming out of my pocket. Now I suppose to a degree that is true, after all, I am a kid who grew up with parents who said I don’t need milk for my cereal, water is just fine. Excuse me for wanting to avoid a cliche date all in the name of saving a couple of dollars. What some women call cheap, I call creative, and what some women call a good time, I call boring ways to spend money.

Thus, I continue to find new and interesting ways to spend time with a woman I want to get to know (that is the definition of dating: going out with someone you want to get to know, not someone we like already, but I digress) without spending a whole lot money. Here is my latest one.

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A Woman’s Five Freaky Things That Freak Me(n) Out

October 12th, 2010 35 comments

Before I get into today’s list, I just want to say I hope we can have fun and talk about today’s post in the comments section like mature adults who know how to laugh. Remember: Just because you don’t find it funny, doesn’t mean it’s serious.

Without saying too much about myself, I would like to think I’m fairly adventurous when it comes to bedroom activities. There is a short list of things I absolutely positively won’t do, or should I say let be done to me? Yeah, I’ll say that, a short list of things I won’t let be done to me, so go ahead and connect the dots on that one. But when it comes to her? Hey, whatever we need to do for her to enjoy herself, I’m game. There’s not too much I won’t do for her pleasure, but every now and then, I want to draw another line.

Whether it was something I experienced first hand or it was an experience one my boys told me about, the following is a list of five things women have wanted to do to enhance the experience, but in doing so, pushed the envelope a little too far. It’s not to say the show will stop. Not at all; it must go on. But just know, these five things are making me slightly uncomfortable.

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Introducing The New Rating System For Women

October 8th, 2010 26 comments

For as long as I have been alive, men have used the 1-10 rating scale to rate women. Is it right? Absolutely not. Is it fun? Hell yes.

But here’s the real question, is it honest? Every man I know will say his woman is nothing under an eight. Maybe he will be man enough to admit she’s a seven, but those guys are few and far between. And anything below a seven isn’t even worth discussing unless the man is mean spirited enough to call her out for being below a seven.

What men need is a new rating system. Too many women are being called 10’s to the point where the whole idea of a 10 isn’t even sufficient enough to describe true 10’s. Now we’re calling them 11’s and 12’s. Huh? If the system was so perfect, there would be no need to go above it. Well, one night, in the midst of a random conversation with my boys about girls (duh), we stumbled upon a new, much better system. I’m using it, my boys are using it, and now I’m sharing it for everyone else to use. And yes, ladies, you can use it too if you so please.

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The Process: Becoming Fearless For The Woman

October 7th, 2010 26 comments

It takes balls to be with a woman — huge, massive, obstructing-the-view-of-the-sun, balls.

I’m not talking about having the guts to be her boyfriend, or sleep with her, or ask her hand in marriage so he could be her husband. The fortitude I speak of is required no matter what scenario a man finds himself in with a woman. Whatever the status is between a man and a woman, even if they’re in the most casual of commitments, the requirement for all men, whenever in the company of women, is to never be afraid of anything.

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The Optimum Time A Woman Should Sleep With A Guy She Is Dating

October 6th, 2010 74 comments

Let me be clear, this post is not my attempt to get a woman to sleep with me or any other man she is dating before she is ready. I have said it before and I will say it again, a woman should not sleep with any man until she is comfortable doing so.

But with every day she lets pass without giving up any “insert-word-that-rhymes-with-pass-here”, she must understand the effects it’s having on the guy she is dating. Make a man wait, and the anxiety starts to build because the more a man likes a woman, the more pressure he puts on himself to perform well. Once that anxiety kicks in, he starts getting a virgin mentality. Sure he’s been with other women, but he’s never been with her and he starts to feel like he’s been waiting for her his whole life and when she’s finally ready to do it, he doesn’t know what to do, in a figurative sense and sometimes in a literal sense.

So, how do we avoid such a catastrophe? By sleeping with the guy at the optimum time. What time is that?

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Stories: “He Has A Girlfriend Too”

October 5th, 2010 48 comments

To this day, I don’t know if any girl with whom I was in a relationship, cheated on me. It’s never been revealed to me and I’ve never pressed the issue. But in my last relationship, I saw myself about to get cheated on with my own eyes, and it was everything I needed to know our relationship was forever broken. Something about my unwillingness to stop it from happening made me realize I just wasn’t in it for the long haul anymore. Read more…

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Five Major Dating Milestones For Men

October 4th, 2010 24 comments

In the early stages of a relationship, men have their own milestones. It’s not to say women don’t have the same ones, but what has a tendency to happen is some women get caught up in these moments that are important to them, then are surprised to see their man’s nonchalant reaction to the same moment. They think the man isn’t taking things as seriously as her or didn’t feel the gravitas of whatever just happened.

Not true.

Some men just don’t see the same big deal a woman sees. For some men, their big deals come at a different time. And let me add, before I get into exactly what those moments are, I know this isn’t all men I’m talking about here. This is just some of them and some women, as well, might agree these are milestones for them too. So here it is, the five major dating milestones for men.

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